Hi, I'm sorry on how brief this is going to be, but I'm not going to be around for a couple days, my grandfather was given 2hrs-2 days to live so I'm going to be away for a bit. I'll likely see you whenever I get back
Oh... You've my sympathies... I went through similar situation few years ago, it hurts. Take your time, we'll be here waiting for you!
My thoughts are with you. I just came back from a 2 month hiatus after dealing with the same, so you have my sincere sympathies.